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Romance

Learn how to spot and avoid scammers on dating sites and social media who build trust, fabricate emergencies, and request money.

Woman using an online dating app.
  • About online romance scams

    Department of Veterans Affairs

    Romance scams are when a criminal adopts a fake online identity to gain your affection and trust. The scammer then uses the illusion of a romantic or close relationship to manipulate or steal from you.

  • Report fraud, scams, and bad business practices to the Federal Trade Commission.

  • Reporte fraude

    Federal Trade Commission

    Proteja a su comunidad reportando fraudes, estafas y malas prácticas comerciales.

  • VA Fraud Prevention Toolkit

    Department of Veterans Affairs

    This toolkit is a partnership between federal agencies, Veteran Service Organizations, Military Service Organizations, and the Department of Veterans Affairs to arm Veterans with the knowledge of the common schemes we are seeing.

  • What to do if you were scammed

    Federal Trade Commission

    Find out what to do if you paid someone you think is a scammer or gave a scammer personal information or access to your computer or phone.

  • What to know about romance scams

    Federal Trade Commission

    Romance scammers create fake profiles on dating sites and apps or contact you through popular social media sites. The scammers strike up a relationship with you to build up trust, sometimes talking or chatting several times a day. Then, they make up a story and ask for money. Learn how to avoid romance scams.

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